From left, Keith Sellers, Antonio Sellers and Felicia Harris Sellers enjoy a laugh after Antonio spoke to media at the recent "Make-A-Wish" presentation at Hudson Catholic
At
first, the “Make-A-Wish” sponsored trip to Durham, N.C. was supposed to be just
for tickets to see the Duke-North Carolina game for Jersey City resident Antonio Sellers.
The
Hudson Catholic basketball star, battling the effects after several surgeries
to combat brain cancer, received the gifts of his “Wish” from New Jersey
Chapter of “Make-A-Wish” President and CEO Tom
Weatherall, at a special assembly inside the Joe “Rocky” Pope Gymnasium at Hudson Catholic.
A
week later, Antonio, his mother Felicia
Harris Sellers, his father Keith,
his good friend and Hudson Catholic teammate Zion Cruz and other family members made the drive down to North
Carolina before Antonio’s beloved Duke Blue Devils took on their archrival Tar
Heels.
Can
anyone even fathom the thought if there were quarantines and shutdowns before
the Sellers family made the journey south? It would have been so disappointing,
so heartbreaking and brutally unfair.
But
they were able to make it to Cameron Indoor Stadium for the pep rally on Friday
night and the game on Saturday night.
And
it’s safe to say that the trip far exceeded anyone’s expectations of the “Make-A-Wish”
request.
“It
sure did,” said Felicia Sellers, who was the New York Metropolitan Writers’
Association’s Player of the Year in 2002, leading the Peahens to the Metro
Atlantic Athletic Conference title, a league that the former Felicia Harris won
Player of the Year in both the regular season and MAAC Tournament. “We knew
that we might meet some people, but they took us in like we were family.”
Before
they made the trip to Duke, it was unclear whether the Sellers family was going
to meet with the legendary man simply known in college basketball circles as “Coach
K,” namely Duke’s Hall of Fame mentor Mike
Krzyzewski, and the players on the team.
Well,
“Coach K” more than simply embraced Antonio and his family. He took them all
in. Krzyzewski addressed the 5,000 or so attending the pep rally, telling them
all about what is called “the Duke Brotherhood.”
“Anyone
who plays for Duke is welcomed into the Duke Brotherhood,” Coach K said. “Well,
the players all agreed that Antonio could be adopted into the Duke Brotherhood
tonight.”
“That
wasn’t part of the plan,” Felicia Sellers said. “It was really nice and showed
they cared for Antonio. They all went out of their way. It wasn’t all about
basketball.”
Krzyzewski
told the “Cameron Crazies” that he had worn a special pin on his lapel on his
suit jacket for every game since 2002 in honor of a 7-year-old boy named Rory Deutsch who was battling brain
cancer and eventually passed away from the hideous disease. Since that time,
the Rory Deutsch Foundation has raised more than $8 million to be used for
brain cancer research
Well,
Krzyzewski took the pin off his lapel and gave it to Antonio.
The
crowd then chanted “Antonio, Antonio,
Antonio,” as Keith Sellers wheeled his smiling 15-year-old son off the
floor in his wheelchair to the rhythmic clapping and dance gestures to the
upbeat tune “Everytime We Touch,” by
Cascada.
“It
was just great for me,” Antonio Sellers said. “I was just happy, because I had
never been there before. It was better than I imagined.”
A
day later, it got even better for Antonio, who sat in the third row behind the
basket with his father. The two were spotted talking about the game as former
Duke greats like Carlos Boozer and
New Jersey native Alaa Abdelnaby came
up to greet him.
After
the Blue Devils won the game, 89-76, Antonio was on the floor with his
victorious Brotherhood. There were pictures taken with Antonio and the players,
like Vernon Carey, Jr,, who had a
game-high 25 points and 10 rebounds and Tre
Jones, who had 21 points and 11 assists.
The
players, Antonio’s new Brotherhood, presented Antonio with the game ball. As it
turned out, because of the growing concern involving the coronavirus COVID-19,
it was the final game of the season for Antonio’s Blue Devils.
Duke
did not get the chance to play in either the ACC or the NCAA Tournaments. Jones
has already declared his intentions to leave Duke and become an NBA player next
season. Carey has not announced his plans for next year.
Just
imagine if that trip wasn’t made right there and then?
“It
was so great,” Antonio Sellers said. “I only cried once. The team and Coach K,
they were so great to me. They took care of me and my Dad. And Duke won.”
Sellers knew the importance of the game.
“We
had to beat them,” Sellers said, already using the possessive pronoun. “We just
had to. I loved it after the game. I gave Coach K two hugs. It was just great
for me, my Mom, my Dad, my friends.”
And
before Antonio left Cameron, the “Crazies” gave him one more salute, chanting “Antonio, Antonio, Antonio,” once again.
“After
we won, they were all calling my name,” Antonio said. “That was really cool.”
The
trip wasn’t over yet. On Sunday morning, the Sellers family met with some of the
top neurosurgeons in the world that work at the Duke Medical Center, to discuss
Antonio’s prognosis and prospects of recovery.
“It
was more enlightening and educational,” Felicia Sellers said. “They told us
about different options that we have. We told them about what we had already
been through.”
All
in all, it was a great trip for the entire family.
“It
was a moment with a lot of unexpected moments,” Felicia Sellers said. “I got to
relax a little, because I saw Antonio smile and be happy with his friends. He
was doing something that he always wanted to do. Some of it was a little
overwhelming at times, but it was still a relief to see him so happy.”
Every
single picture taken, every video recorded, had Antonio flashing that bright,
wide smile. For a teenager who has endured so much since his diagnosis a little
over a year ago, seeing the smiles on his face was so heartwarming and invigorating.
“It
was just how everyone treated us, how the whole coaching staff went out of
their way, people like Debbie K (the coach’s daughter), who took us all over
the school,” Felicia Sellers said. “They embraced our family and we felt so
comfortable with them right away. They opened up and showed us where it all
happens. It made the trip so much more than basketball. We’re going to remain
in touch. We made friends for life.”
All
totaled, it’s a weekend that Felicia Sellers and her handsome 15-year-old son
won’t soon forget.
“It
was amazing for me,” Felicia Sellers said. “I appreciate everyone who had a
part in it and made it all possible.”
And
to think, the entire trip became possible with one simple phone call from an
old sportswriter to a long-time friend of almost 50 years and an old Little
League teammate who has never once forgotten his Jersey City and St. Paul’s of
Greenville roots. Seeing that boy smile was so very much worth it. – Jim Hague